Family Therapy Podcast
Two cousins get together to discuss recent events & hot topics with insight from their generational differences and outlook on today's society & culture. Warren and Erica offer commentary on entertainment and music industry news. This podcast welcomes listeners a peak into their unique upbringing with hilarious stories and general life survival guides.
Family Therapy Podcast
Episode 2: Cloves & Seahorses
Warren and Erica reflect a little on the feedback they received on their first episode. Warren mistakes Erica‘s clove tea with seahorses. Erica shares a story from her earlier teenage years.
Hi Erica.
Speaker 2:Hey Warren, how's it going?
Speaker 1:Good, how are you?
Speaker 2:Doing good.
Speaker 1:Good, good. How are you feeling?
Speaker 2:I'm feeling good. I'm getting over a cold, so I don't. My voice is still a little raspy, but I felt a lot better than I did last week.
Speaker 1:Last week. Yeah Good, yeah Good, I'm getting, uh, some pretty bad allergies. Yeah, it's about that time.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't know if it's allergies or if it was a cold, so I don't know. There's always that confusion.
Speaker 1:Right, but yeah, I'm getting over mine too.
Speaker 2:That's good to hear Good.
Speaker 1:Yeah, how are you feeling after our first episode?
Speaker 2:to hear good, yeah, how are you feeling after our first episode? Um, after the feedback I received, I'm I uh, you know I I'm feeling better. Um, and it was what is it? Construction constructive constructive yeah sorry, oh my goodness, um and uh. So just getting that feedback is going to help me be more successful, so I appreciated the honesty from those that listened and whatnot. So this is our first podcast. And that was our first recording, so. I was like oh yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, well, yeah, I think you did a good job too. We did good. We did good. If I remember correctly, I think I high-fived you after I edited our first episode yes, the one we scrapped but yeah, we did good. Yeah, we did good, and I do appreciate the feedback that we got also. Yeah, we got a pretty good amount of feedback.
Speaker 2:Right, good and bad.
Speaker 1:Right, I wouldn't say bad, but constructive, like you said yeah, instructive from people that um you know from our beloved friends and family yeah, you're good.
Speaker 2:Thank you for that same yeah, yeah, right on, yeah.
Speaker 1:So again, like erica said, this is our first day. This is our first time doing a podcast, but I think we did pretty good for the first time yeah and we are here again yeah, here we are, so not first day, this is our.
Speaker 2:This is our second day. Second day, yeah, or whatever you want to call it. First week on the job.
Speaker 1:First week on the job. I just want to go ahead and clarify something that I said last time, because I did listen to the episode once or twice and when we got to the part where you asked me, like the moral or the speak for your soul section, and then I said treat time the way you want to be treated yeah, nice time, and it'll be nice to you. What I meant by that was like, uh, when you have, when you schedule something, you got to stick to it, obviously, like an appointment or like a job schedule, right, um, but just uh. To bring my perspective into this back a few years ago, like five years ago, I would get real how would you say? Overwhelmed and angry, upset, mad, because I was always rushing or running late, trying to gather all my stuff in the last minute and that's all, because I would not acknowledge time. And time is there, it's a real thing, it's, it's what's, it's always going, time is always.
Speaker 2:Yeah, regardless of how you feel of anything that's going out's going on in the world, you got to keep rolling.
Speaker 1:You got to keep going. You can't just go when you're ready. Sometimes you have to go when it's time to go. You got to go, and that's a lesson that I learned a few years ago and I'm still learning now. It's a proper dragon in my life that I have yet to conquer, but that's what I meant by treating time the way you want to be treated. If you're nice to time, follow it, it'll be there for you. You'll have more time on your hands later on.
Speaker 2:And you'll feel.
Speaker 1:You'll have that time to relax later on if you just stick to your schedule. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2:And what I was going to say is just you will feel less overwhelmed, I think. Oh, yes, for sure, especially if you wake up 20 minutes earlier. For example and set your day, you'll be on time, right, and it really does wonders.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and I try to set myself up to do that most of the time at night, and sometimes I follow through and sometimes I don't. But like I said it's, it's a dragon.
Speaker 2:I've yet to conquer my life and you're human and you're learning and I am still doing the same thing. Like um, I always got get told that I'm running on indian time, so so what does that mean?
Speaker 1:what does that mean indian time? That mean Indian time. Is that like fast time? Is that slow time?
Speaker 2:You haven't heard that. No, oh, they're on Indian time being from where we're from. I know I've never heard that.
Speaker 1:What is that?
Speaker 2:Just basically. You're just on your own time, you just show up when you show up. Oh yeah, so definitely yeah, indian time, indian you show up like, oh, you know, just, oh yeah, so definitely, yeah, indian time indian, indian time, indian time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you're gonna have to look that up because that's like a lot of people talk about that, especially from home, back home. I've never. I've never. I mean I've heard it once or twice but I never, like knew what it referred to yeah indian time I would my, is it?
Speaker 2:because, knew what it referred to. Yeah, indian time. I would my. Is it because I'm sorry? Go ahead. Oh, no, um, I was just gonna say, like my, my opinion on that is just. I would assume I would think it's just like they're just going on their own time, like no, just no concept of time?
Speaker 1:is that the word like? Is that what it is?
Speaker 2:I don't know me, that's what it seems.
Speaker 1:I would assume Indian time meant like no clock around, yeah. Like no clock in the hogan yeah. Or is that what it means? Like no electricity, something like that?
Speaker 2:Yeah, you have no sense of time.
Speaker 1:Okay. To sum that up, Okay, yeah, so yeah, so yeah, definitely stay off Indian time. Yes, don't follow Indian time.
Speaker 2:Especially when you have places to be. You have responsibility and people are expecting you to show up right Right right, so yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Perfect, I like that.
Speaker 2:I like that, so it's funny because you, so I'm drinking clove tea.
Speaker 1:Yeah well, she calls it clove tea. But she walked into my room with a mason jar full of water and it literally looks like fish or like seahorses or like sea monkeys. So I was like what did you bring your fish? Is this a gift for me? Is this for my desk?
Speaker 2:right and I and so I look at him and I'm like, why would I bring fish? And he's like, uh, I don't know. And so I told him no, it's clove and I wouldn't know, because that's something that would probably happen yeah, in this house yeah, I mean, it's never a dull moment in this house, so would you ever consider getting a fish tank?
Speaker 2:so? Probably not, because I am not I'm a forced pet lover now. No, I'm just kidding, it's not forced. They grew on me, but the less the better we did. When my kids were younger, they did have a huge fish tank and it's time consuming. Sometimes you have to really deep clean it and it's just like no, take the fish out, take the fish out. Sometimes you have to really like deep clean it and it's just like no, like take the fish out take the fish out, you have to clean the tank and I can't deal with smells.
Speaker 1:I'll be gagging all over and it's just like it just doesn't work for me, so the yeah, no, no, no fish for me yeah, that makes sense we can go fishing and we can you know yeah, leave the fish there or whatever eat it, but leave all that stuff there, leave the water there and you come home and back to your nice, clean home yes, exactly they're bringing the tank to into your house exactly.
Speaker 1:I mean, they're beautiful, don't get me wrong, but just that I just don't have time for yeah, you've already been there and done that right uh, I was asking because I think fish tanks bring like a nice vibe they do, they're really nice I think like or like water, like a fountain yes, they. I don't know like it's, like it's peaceful it's soothing too soothing, yeah, something, it's soothing. I think that's why I have to sit outside by the pool, because the little fountain out there, you know, just to hear water, just to like splash, it's nice. Yeah, it is, it is nice.
Speaker 2:And, uh, I actually have to call the pool because the little fountain out there, you know, just to hear water, just to like splash, it's nice. Yeah, it is, it is nice.
Speaker 2:And uh, I actually have to call the pool guy because that thing has been going 24 7 and I'm gonna be pretty pissed off if my electricity bill is higher yeah because it's like dude, like it's supposed to run now that it's spring, it's warming up, um, and of course we want to have a clean, nice pool and the water fountain that that it filters spring, it's warming up, um, and of course we want to have a clean, nice pool and the water fountain that that it filters.
Speaker 1:It is really nice, especially, like you said, to just go sit out there and just kind of unwind and listen, but, um, I want to take advantage of it, I want to go by, I want to like, go, like, get like one of those outside beds, like those beds that you lay on oh yeah, like a tanning bed, there you go, yeah, yeah like uh, those, yeah, is that what it is? Yeah?
Speaker 2:like a tanning bed that you lay along the pool yes, yeah, I want to do the same thing, because I we did have some and then, I don't know, the wind took them or at some point. So yeah, but now that it's warming up we'll definitely be outside more I want to be outside more, for sure before it gets brutally hot or it gets too too hot yeah, yeah so very nice.
Speaker 1:We live in paradise. It's such a nice day outside such a nice day to hear it really is.
Speaker 2:I. I enjoy it, even when we do have the 115 weather. I'd rather have that than freezing. I just I cannot be in the cold anymore. And it's funny because when I go back home I've been here going on four years, but when I go back home to visit I am freezing, freezing my bones hurt.
Speaker 1:Can't even go outside.
Speaker 2:Can't even go outside and it's, you know, it can be in the 60s or whatever. And they're like oh, Erica, stop it, You're over-exaggerating. I'm like, Erica, stop it, You're over-exaggerating. I'm like no, I'm not.
Speaker 1:Yeah, 60 there is different than 60 here. It really is, it really is. Yeah, it's cold. Yeah, I get cold too. When I go there I'm like, oh, it's so depressing, and when I get cold I get sad.
Speaker 2:Yes, it's depressing.
Speaker 1:It is depressing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so I'd rather be hot. I feel like you can cool off with a nice lemonade, or you could beat the heat, or yeah, you really can easier out here.
Speaker 1:I mean, it's not like we live outside, yeah the sidewalk because just come inside right you know, we don't you know yeah people complain it's too hot here, but we don't live outside, yeah. And I'm saying like, oh, it's too hot there, I want to live there. It's too, I would die. Yeah, well, we don't live outside, yeah I mean you would die if you live outside on the street? Yeah, it's too hot yeah, but you could go, you know, you don't, we don't spend all our time outside exactly.
Speaker 2:We're going from an air-conditioned home to our air-conditioned car. Hopefully you have an air conditioner right into an air-conditioned facility. Yeah, whether it's a supermarket, a dentist office, you know some places are freezing, though they overly freeze their buildings, like my office. Now that it's warming up, oh my gosh frozen yeah, I'm frozen. I'm sitting there and I'm like, uh, can't even type because it's so cold, like what the hell man?
Speaker 1:yeah, I wear gloves yeah, some people keep their facilities cold cold. There's a pizza hut in Apache Junction and it's cold in there, but it's fresh yeah but it's freezing in there, man, it's like, but it's like a swamp, cooler and it's just, it's so good yeah it smells good it smells like water and like oh, I just want to live in there, yeah um, and then there are some places where they have no ac because it's broken.
Speaker 1:It's like horrible hot. I went into a subway around the corner and they had their ac off too, like I think it was just wasn't working oh goodness and it was so humid in there and there were like people in there just eating casually like eating moist, sound like it was just so hot in there.
Speaker 2:Yes, I could not.
Speaker 1:I could not to where you could like smell like people, like that kind of hot oh, hell.
Speaker 2:No, I would have walked out it was gross.
Speaker 1:I don't know how people just like, okay, let's eat here, you know here.
Speaker 2:Like no, fuck that, you know I'll eat in my car yeah, exactly, especially at subway, like it's crazy, because after I tried um jersey mics and uh, what is it? What's the other one? Jersey Mike's?
Speaker 1:and Jimmy Dean.
Speaker 2:Jimmy, yeah.
Speaker 1:Jimmy John.
Speaker 2:Jimmy John.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Jimmy Dean is the sausage.
Speaker 1:Wow, somebody's hungry.
Speaker 2:Somebody is hungry, jimmy John's. I do not like Subway anymore. I can't do it. I can't.
Speaker 1:It is pretty plain. It is it's like plain Jane.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't like Jimmy John's though, really. I mean, well, I like it, it's good, but the smell when I go in there I don't like the way it smells. It smells gross.
Speaker 2:I, just I, you know what. I've actually never been into one been into one.
Speaker 1:I've just had it delivered to me. It smells gross. I don't know why like it's always yeah, just jimmy john's always it's the same smell.
Speaker 2:Is it maybe like the onions? No, it's like a body smell oh hell, no yeah it's probably because sometimes the onion does smell like body odor. I don't know, but I like their um pickle, pickle witch, or so it's the sandwich made out of the pickle. Oh, really, and it has salami, pepperoni and provolone or something like that. I don't know, but I love pickles and I just think that's the best sandwich ever. It doesn't get you full, but it's a good snack, good portion.
Speaker 1:Yeah yeah, it was pretty good. When I ate there too, I ate there a few years ago, but recently when I've been going in there to pick up for DoorDash, it's been like pretty smelly.
Speaker 2:Yeah, oh no. Well, that might change my mind now then.
Speaker 1:I don't know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, go ahead. So, just thinking about our first episode, I'm just wanting to circle back and we're just having a great time here, so excuse our laughs.
Speaker 1:It's fun.
Speaker 2:This is great, but anyways, back to just circling back here. We did not mention who we are or you know how we came about. We did not mention who we are or you know how we came about, so I just want to give a brief description of who I am, and then you know, then you can. Yeah, of course.
Speaker 1:I'll take the baton from there.
Speaker 2:Yeah, there you go. So Warren and I are actually cousins, we're first cousins. So we grew up, our moms are sisters and I don't know. I just feel like you're always closer to your mom's side of the family. Well, for me anyways, I think so, because I don't really associate with my dad's side of the family, but my mom's sisters, brother, all my cousins. We grew up very close.
Speaker 2:Very close yeah so we used to live in New Mexico and now we live in Arizona. So it was just an abrupt decision that I decided about four years ago, just to get up and move. Didn't know nothing about Arizona, Packed up my kids and said let's go. So here we are.
Speaker 1:That's a um, here we are. That's a bold, yeah, that's a bold move to just up, up and go. Yeah, up and go. Well, I've, I've done that before, but uh, that's a bold move yeah, it's a bold move, especially with, you know, four kids yeah, what, uh? What made you come to Arizona?
Speaker 2:um, so it was during, I believe, covid or the end of covid, and so I got laid off, couldn't find a job, was just done with the whole new mexico scene. Um, I have teenagers and young adults, so just wanted to get them out of that atmosphere, try something new. My brother had recently moved to Arizona and he was like, hey, just come out here, you can stay with us, you know, until you get it together. So totally took him up on that opportunity, packed her stuff, got rid of the house and, uh, just came seriously like on on on hopes and dreams, because I did not have a job, I did not have a house.
Speaker 2:Um, it was my daughter's senior year and so I even I had to consult with her, of course, you know first because, well, she was starting her senior year and I was like, hey, baby, you know you want to go to Arizona. Um, she agreed, the boys agreed, and and here we are. And, uh, four years later, you know, we, we made it and it's, it's going great, we love it. And now I I tease them and like, hey, you want to go back?
Speaker 2:and they're like hell, no, I don't want to go back it wasn't a bad choice it wasn't, and all the things that are going on back in our hometown and you know, just not necessarily our hometown, but in Albuquerque it's just the crime rate and everything has gotten so bad?
Speaker 1:it's dangerous, yeah, especially for teenagers.
Speaker 2:You know, I just I cannot imagine my boys growing up there. I just I would feel I would live in a lot of fear and anxiety just with their personalities and and things like that. So, and of course there's bad places, no matter where you go um, but I I feel pretty safe here where we're, where we're at in arizona, and the boys love it. I love the weather. I don't know how people yeah, I don't know how people complain about the hotness, because I love it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the hotness is great. I love it here too, it's paradise.
Speaker 2:It really is we truly live in paradise. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Every day, every day.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Nothing bad, no earthquakes, no tornadoes. Nothing crazy, no, nothing crazy.
Speaker 2:Yeah, nice winters.
Speaker 1:Nice winters.
Speaker 2:It gets a little cold, but it. But it's another reason why I chose Arizona, because it's like a central location, so it's like only four hours from New Mexico. Um, there's Nevada, there's California so you know very centralized yeah, so it's pretty cool because it's like five hours anywhere you want to go Each way. It's like, okay, you want to go see the ocean Heck, yeah, let's go. You want to go visit family and get some good food yeah, let's go.
Speaker 1:Yeah, exactly, you want to go up and down.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so that's kind of just a brief description of who I am or how I came about and how I got to Arizona. Like I said, mother of four, and as we continue our podcast and I share my life stories or just experiences I've had, I feel like you all will learn more about me, because it just feels kind of awkward to be like okay about me, what do I really say? Like I know who I am, but I'd rather talk about it and you all learn about me than just saying you know, just saying things about myself.
Speaker 1:If that makes sense, I agree. Yeah, I agree, and I don't even know where to start to talk about myself. I don't even know where to begin. It's such a broad story right, I feel like a lot has brought me here today yeah in arizona here today making a podcast with my cousin. There's a lot of stories behind that yeah, so I'd rather just share that as we go along right does that sound good?
Speaker 2:yeah, that sounds good and uh, but just how did what made you decide to move to a Cause? I know you lived here before I did Right, so I came here on on the whim too. Yeah.
Speaker 1:On the whim, everything that could fit in my car.
Speaker 2:Oh nice.
Speaker 1:And I just made a one trip. Well, two cars actually. I had a friend help me move my stuff.
Speaker 2:Nice.
Speaker 1:And I just started over with the mattress. You know, with the mattress, and I just tend to find myself in that position every so often, you know, just starting over again and again and again. But uh, yeah, that was just it. I just wasn't, um, I wasn't feeling New Mexico anymore.
Speaker 1:You know, once I knew, once I knew that I could just go right that I had no boundaries or or no like strings to hold me back home. I just thought, well, I'll just go. Yeah, I came here once before I moved here and it was nice, I loved it. I was like, why not?
Speaker 2:Yeah, and there's a funny story because, uh, your mom and I, when I lived with you when I was a teenager um, that's another thing you know I can share just the top of my head is so I lived with my auntie, Warren's mom, and so I used to watch Warren when he was little, like four or five years old, we used to drive the little car to Taco Bell Express.
Speaker 1:I remember that, I remember that.
Speaker 2:The shoe.
Speaker 1:I remember that those days clearly yeah, I think those because those were the more funner nights.
Speaker 2:Times, times, times that you could have way out there. Yeah, exactly, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, so.
Speaker 1:I think every fun moment is like those core memories I just hold.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:That I could recall very good, because it's just that's all I had. Yeah, it was fun times, that's all it was. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:But so your mom and I and I don't know if you know this story or not, but we had came out here for like a car show and concert and stuff and oh my goodness, our family was pissed.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like everybody was so mad.
Speaker 1:So that was a long time ago.
Speaker 2:Long time ago you were tiny, like I was like probably 16.
Speaker 1:Oh, wow.
Speaker 2:Years ago, years.
Speaker 1:You were a child.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah Pretty much, and so we came out here didn't know nothing about the place. I was pissed because we ended up on Van Buren. We don't know what the hell Van Buren is.
Speaker 1:Van Buren, that's a horrible place. It's a horrible place, Horrible horrible.
Speaker 2:We don't know what the hell we're doing. We're two chicks, I guess, ignorant at that time. I don't know what you want to call it. End up there. It's craziness. We're like what the hell? This is something we're not used to. Driving in circles, because I feel like Arizona is a big loop and every freaking corner there's a circle K, so for the longest time I was like hell, no, I would never move to Phoenix and I don't want to go back in this big old rent.
Speaker 1:It was a scary experience.
Speaker 2:It really was it was traumatizing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, got lost Traumatizing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and thank goodness, back then I feel like I don't feel like it was as crazy as it is now. You know, maybe it of course every era has its craz craziness but I don't feel as it, as it is today, you know, does that make sense?
Speaker 1:Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 2:Yeah so.
Speaker 1:And also back then you didn't know exactly where you were.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:So it's hard for you to just I understand how you made that connection in your head. Like Phoenix equals scary bat.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly. And then Circle K's, and I'm like I hate Circle K's, so do I. They're scary, yeah they are, they're scary.
Speaker 1:I don't like I mean they're not scary, but I just feel like I take a lot of time in there.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:There's always a line, yeah, always a line, anyway.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and it first first time to Phoenix and I just had a horrible experience and I was like I'm never coming back. And then here I am, years and years later and I absolutely love it. So yeah, just a little background story that's cool.
Speaker 1:I like to hear that. I'll do that story yeah that's fun. That's fun. I can only imagine what it was like like to have no cell phone back then, or to have no phone right you're just wondering about. Hopefully you get home yeah or come across a phone exactly.
Speaker 2:It was like or did you, or did you have a cell phone back then? Okay, so let me see, we're gonna have to do the math real quick, so I'm gonna have to. How old was I? Like 16, so I am. That was 26 years ago 26 years ago.
Speaker 1:26 years ago or wait so you are, that was 1999, yeah, 1999 that just seems we're gonna party like it's okay, I like that song yeah, I know, thank god, you know I'm not a singer here.
Speaker 2:Oh I.
Speaker 1:That's why I'm not in the yeah, but anyway that's why we're doing a podcast, not recording a novel.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly, yeah, but okay, so 1999 technology wasn't the greatest. I don't even, I can't even recall 1999 yeah, I think I was. I was like seven yeah, that's what I mean. You were tiny and we just came on a trip out here because we wanted to check out the car show, because our uncle was, he entered his car, I think, or something like that. So that's how we ended up out here. Oh, okay, but we just yeah, it was an experience of a lifetime Like oh my goodness.
Speaker 1:Yeah, traumatizing. Yeah, and back to the phones. But now you're here.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1:Back to the phones.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, back to the phones. I don't even think I use like I don't know how to. I don't think they had like Google Maps or anything like that, so I don't know 1999.
Speaker 1:That was so long ago. What a what a time to be alive. I wonder what it was like in 1999, but you were alive, I mean I was, I was but but to remember that because you remember that era.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was fun. Yeah, yeah, it was really fun?
Speaker 1:I'm sure it was. I would like to live in a time where there was no technology. It was great. I wish I was born in like the 60s me the 50s. I would have loved that or live through something, through a nicer era than now.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah but I think every era has its issues and problems, but it wasn't just, I feel, like the way everything technology grew so much, it's just like there's just so much thrown at us where it's just like geez, like it's just yeah you can't even walk in public without being recorded right, every it's embarrassing as a camera yeah every house has a camera, and if not a house, then a car has a camera yeah if not a house, then somebody's kid has a camera.
Speaker 2:Yeah, or you're walking in walmart and they're doing them tiktok videos and then now you're in a tiktok video.
Speaker 1:Now you're in tiktok.
Speaker 2:You don't even know it yeah, exactly, we went to new york in september and we were just in times square and we're on a freaking tiktok video just standing there. I'm like oh man, that's funny, oh geez, but yeah, that's so, that's uh, we kind of went off with about us, but I mean, that's just kind of a.
Speaker 1:I guess I had a brief, a little brief, yeah and I think you, you did it justice for me also yeah yeah, I think I'd rather just have them listeners. Just learn more about me as we go along sounds good that sounds very good to me awesome yes, yes, it does so, uh, how was your easter?
Speaker 1:it was good. It was good, I just worked. I just worked a lot on DoorDash. It was okay. Yeah, it was all right. I didn't do anything special. Oh yeah, I got a tire, a nail on my tire. Oh gosh, which I got taken care of already, but I got a nail on my tire and then shortly after that there was. There was a little um a crack in my windshield oh yeah yeah, wow, you had a great weekend, then it was a little one right in front of my face oh, right there, yes right there.
Speaker 1:And then, uh, when I took my card in to get the tire fixed, when they gave it back to me it was worse. Like it went all the way up like this, like a big question mark, and all the way around. That's how they gave it back to me. Wow, they must have like dropped it, I guess, or like did a little, a little like shake or something. Yeah, when they when they lifted the car up to work on it Right.
Speaker 1:When they let it down, they probably just let it like that last little inch, they probably just let it fall.
Speaker 2:Oh gosh, and it probably cracked, yeah.
Speaker 1:So I got to get that taken care of as soon as possible, because around here in Arizona they pull you over for that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they do.
Speaker 1:Yes, they do. I don't want that, but anyway, it was a good Easter. How was yours?
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was pretty chill First time not going back home to the family in New Mexico, but it was nice. We spent or what were you going to say, no, go ahead. Oh okay, we spent it with one of my boys' best friends' parents. We got to meet them recently and they're awesome people, so they're actually like our first friends here in Arizona after four years. So it's really nice to have you know that relationship.
Speaker 1:It really is. Yeah, that's one of those life goals kind of a thing. Yeah, like one of those wins when you have that, that other couple friend, I guess yeah, and it's pretty cool I can relate to.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly, it's pretty cool. They're very like us and uh very similar like personalities, uh close in age so your, your kids get along right.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, you guys are friends obviously.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and it works out. It's really cool and it feels like they are family, which is weird because we just met them back in October. We were watching the World Series and my son was like, hey, you should meet my friend's parents, they're pretty cool. And we met and hit it off and now we're, you know, barbecuing or hanging out, going to concerts.
Speaker 1:And it's pretty cool.
Speaker 2:Yeah, spending Easter together. So yeah, our first friends awesome people.
Speaker 1:Yeah, sounds good.
Speaker 2:They're like family, and then I just have my brother here and his wife and kids and then you. So that's really all we have here in.
Speaker 1:Arizona yeah.
Speaker 2:Everybody else is yeah, yeah I don't have anybody else either.
Speaker 1:I think just you.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:When it comes to family.
Speaker 2:Oh, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:But that's cool, I like that. Yeah, it's always a score when you get that when you meet that other couple friend.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's pretty neat.
Speaker 1:That's always a blessing.
Speaker 2:It really is so good. I like that.
Speaker 1:It's good to hear yeah, let's get this going. Yay, yeah. So I think we had a good Easter.
Speaker 2:Overall, yeah, overall.
Speaker 1:But I think that's about it for today. What do you think?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think that's a wrap.
Speaker 1:All righty, I like that. We'll see you next week, is that okay?
Speaker 2:Yeah, we'll see you All right, bye-bye.
Speaker 1:Thanks for listening. Bye.
Speaker 2:Bye-bye. Thanks for watching.